In this sense, being a bitch kind of means, being emotionally unavailable. Making out (I haven’t said that in a while) makes you feel young and frisky again.
Let this be your new mantra: Everything and nothing is a date.
"You'll be missing out on all sorts of opportunities to connect with guys if you're simply waiting for them to ask you out," Massa says.
Therefore, your date should be looking for any moment available to assert himself (be a man.) At the very least, it is a nice gesture. Also, having him to decide where to go and what to do, enables you to see how romantic, spontaneous, or creative he can be. The more you turn them down and make them feel inferior, the more they want you and respect you. Of course, I’m not saying you should literally treat him like an ugly step child, but I do suggest treating him like he‘s expendable.
It keeps him vested in the relationship, rather than just going along with the relationship. If you want the upper hand in the dating field, this is how you do that.
So, let me share with you my Top 10 Dating Rules, in the hopes that I’m saving you and reminding myself of all the crap and confusion involved with dating the opposite sex. No, you shouldn’t have to go half on the bill or pay every other date. It is great material in case you need to catch him in a lie, prepare for future arguments or (necessarily) make quick judgments so you can get the hell out of dodge. There’s two reasons: let’s the man feel like a man and you can observe his character.
I’m sorry but, if you’re on a date with a real man, then the man is going to pay.
Don’t always jump to answer his calls, let him wonder what you are doing.
When he wants to take you out, let him know you’ll be available after you ‘check your schedule’.
Until then, it will just be the same guy with a different name.3.