Pro: Invigorate and Energize Your Life There’s nothing more exciting than finding a strong connection with somebody.
By dating outside your age, you’re liable to find somebody with vastly different experiences and opinions than yours.
Queer men are varying shades of the rainbow." —Chris, 25 "I went from a 225-pound fat boy to a 145-pound athletic guy.
Published in 2004 by Crown, the book takes a populist approach to dating, drawing on the author’s 175 interviews with men – and some of his my own dating experiences – to tell our stories.
From the author: “My own experience and the experiences of other men have been funny, poignant, sometimes painful. We’ve come a long way, but we obviously still have a long way to go until we have full equality as well as as full understanding of norms and traditions within our own community.
Whether you’re the younger or the older, intergenerational gay dating is the place to be.
The younger can introduce you to some of the newest clubs on the scene, while the older can take him out for a night of classic cuisine that never ages.
I was becoming attractive, to the point where other guys were staring and had lust in their eyes.
To say I wish I was a big boy again would not be too far from the truth.
If he's 22 years old and wears glasses and weighs 108 pounds and says "for some reason people tend to think I'm a Twink," feign surprise and say "men are so into labels." Then help him lift his martini glass to his lips and move on.
Five: If you're over thirty and at least four years older than your date, don't be surprised if he calls you Daddy.
But I've learned that those romantic conventions don't work when you are trying to date a queer person.