There are also great Christian ministries (that I highly respect) who hold very different views.On one hand there’s Leslie Ludy who is totally against it and on the other hand we have Boundless who is very much in favor of it.Some singles don’t bother to look for a spouse, believing God will bring the person to them, while others are forever on a feverish search for one, fearing they may miss him or her.
I’ve had multiple conversations and have read many blogs and articles about online dating. Online dating gives the users the chance to put their best foot forward and keep the ugly in the background. Online dating has the potential to be used because of a lack of trust in God.
I’ve decided to boil all of that information down into this one teeny tiny blog post. Going online requires you to fork over a bunch of personal information (that’s how they make the matches). It can be difficult to know the true beliefs, convictions, and character of the guys you meet. A lack of trust that God is the Creator and hold the hearts of Kings in His hands. God is working in your life and giving you opportunities to grow and become more like Jesus. God has tons of work (the harvest is plentiful but the workers are few) and singles are a great set of people to focus on that Kingdom work.
In fact it doesn’t even tell us how to “date” or “court,” whichever we call the process we use to get to know a potential mate.
In the Bible times, these did not exist in the same form that we see them today.
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Back then, families helped young women and men meet and become engaged and often chose their children’s mates for them.
Today, singles are more on their own to find a mate.
There is so much to be said on the topic and I realize I can’t address every aspect of the conversation today. I’ve read in several places that many online dating sites aren’t totally secure, making it somewhat easy for hackers to get into your account and access your info. A lack of trust that God is capable of providing and a fear that if you don’t go online you’ll never get married. Think through the possible work God might have for you before getting online.