Over the years several women have written me to tell me reading this site has helped them understand the actions of a shy guy they were pursuing.
Make him want to kiss you by getting him to notice his target (i.e. won’t make the move and kiss you, it’s time to take matters into your own hands.
Shy guys are amazingly shrouded and can be hard to read.
Not all shy men will have issues that intense or have every characteristic apply to them.
I'll list some quick suggestions at the end, but for the most part I'll describe the issues shy guys deal with and let you draw your own conclusions about how to act.
At the end I give a few thoughts on what to do if there's a shy guy in your life you're interested in.
Combined, the points below will describe a guy who's really, really inhibited and awkward around women.Contrast his behavior to you and his behavior to others. In the event that he treats you uniquely in contrast to others, he definitely has solid feelings or something to that effect for you. His failure to talk may be nervousness: He’s got a smash on you, and he’s so perplexed about saying something odd or doltish that he’s let himself know its better just not to talk when you’re around.Dating advice is outside the scope of this site, with this article being a semi-exception. he's a really really nice/ shy guy, who only had a girlfriend once or so ;; he's a freshmen in college.the thing that really confuses me is that he was somewhat bold on our first date, holding my hands, putting his arms around me etc.And although initiating a kiss is not most girls’ forte, with shy guys, making the first move has to become second nature.